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Compromise

Looking up the word "Compromise" in my dictionary,  I realised it has different meanings from that I know of. However,  compromise in everyday language is: foregoing one thing for another in order to reach an agreement.  Usually the issue of compromise would come up whenever we find ourselves disagreeing with a person. In our day to day interaction with others, in our lives and in our relationships the issue of compromise is very key.  Now compromise could involve giving up that space in your wardrobe for your sister just so the room isn't cramped up; or giving up that job just so you can be closer to your spouse; or even keeping quiet during an argument even when you know you're right just for peace sake.  Truth is life is all about compromise; frankly that's one way we can maintain healthy and peaceful relationships with one another. As long as we are unwilling to forgo whatever it is, there will always be that strain between us and the other perso

Take Responsibility

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Often times we hear people complain of failing to accomplish a task as a result of the failure of another to assist them in accomplishing a certain task. For some individuals, you hear statements like "if my dad was alive, I would have been living a comfortable life." The truth is, these are excuses made by folks who have tied their life to the assistance of another. Such kills a man's vision/dreams. As a young child, I remember always fighting for my elder sister. I just couldn't stand the sight of a guy harassing her. Despite our often disagreements, I stood up for her at every point. However, the act changed when she decided to do it herself in my absence. Guess what; she triumphed! Well, she didn't beat the guy though (her opposition) but she wasn't beaten either. At least this time, she comfortably stood her ground. The point is, sometimes, we've got to act like no one else can get the victory for us save ourselves. I lost my dad in my second